Friday, February 11, 2011

Valentine's Day

So the Famous Valentine's day is just around the corner. I've been seeing everyone hyped up about the day, girls shopping for new dresses, gifts for the lovers, surprises for their lovers and all what people restrict themselves to be a must be done on Valentine's day. I was asked almost 20 times who my Valentine will be and if I am celebrating it, well why not? It is a day to celebrate exchanged love, but does it really have to be a boyfriend or a husband that I celebrate it with? or must it even be the person you're in love with? I don't think so. 


I used to have the same mentality as everyone, that Valentine's day is to be celebrated with my loved one, the person I happen to be in love with but then I thought about it and I realized that if I'm celebrating a day that everyone should feel unconditional love for and my single friend is having a hard time coping through, I won't even be happy, would you? Sometimes we are not even in love with the person that we might be with so why celebrate such a special day with them only? 


The definition of Valentine's day is "To celebrated exchanged love". I think we all should be able to celebrate it with whoever we carry love or care for whether its a boyfriend, friend, mother, sister, brother etc, simply whoever you have love for. What am I doing for Valentine's day? I will be with my photographer & his camera shooting at a studio and afterwards I am having dinner with my beloved friends and family because those are all people that I love and heart unconditionally. 


If you are single on Valentine's day, No it is not a problem, or sad or what so ever others might tell you, call your friends, call your family and tell them you love them. Love is such a big beautiful word, and we are to share it with the world not one person in such a big world full of people that have all the love to give back. 


Happy Valentine's Day to you in advance =).  

2 comments:

  1. you just gave a beautiful insight on the essence of the day...will definately keep that in mind.. happy vals day to u too...much Love!

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